The Lowdown on Having Adult Sex on the First Date

When you meet a cool girl you like, you ask her out, go on a date, see a movie, have dinner, and all that jazz. It can either be awkward, or it can be fantastic. And since youre out on a date, you have every intention to know her intimately.
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When you meet a cool girl you like, you ask her out, go on a date, see a movie, have dinner, and all that jazz. It can either be awkward, or it can be fantastic. And since youre out on a date, you have every intention to know her intimately. Of course, you expect her to make you work for it, and as guys, we most certainly will, because maybe, just maybe shes that rare one weve been looking for all our lives.

We all know that women are still caught up in the stigma of having adult sex with guys on the first date, wherein hey think they are considered a slut when this happens. This is the reason why chances of this happening are pretty slim, unless, of course, you met her at some adult dating site.

Lets just say the girl decides to invite him in and f*ck the living daylights out of him. Here is all a woman needs to know about whats going on inside a guys mind.

• The Pros

Were not a hookup, were your date If weve shared something to you thats worth seeing each other again, wouldnt you be interested in a little more than dinner and a movie? Wouldnt you like to see us sans clothes, and then let us show you what you were interested in knowing from the start?

It is something fun to share Im pretty sure youve taken your hook ups home, had adult sex with them and sent them on their way. Of course, you will never see them again under these circumstances. However, the next time you go out with your date, you will have a lot of intimate things to discuss and share insights, jokes, observations, secrets to share that you would never have done with Johnny Beefcake, the douchebag who didnt stay to spoon and watch you hustle to work to avoid being late.

• The Cons

To be honest, if you suck at adult sex, we will definitely lose interest. A lot of women think that the very act itself is enough for us. This is where they are wrong. We are expecting the same mind-blowing experience youre expecting; its a two-way street. Dont think just because you spread those legs and prop a pillow under your head that were all set. It takes a whole lot more than that, honey.

To tell you the truth, there are a lot of guys who are just looking to add a notch to their belts. But since you are intuitive and quite sensitive, you will be able to spot them from a mile away. So if you hold back on the first date, you will most likely never hear from them again.